For Families

You've Been Carrying This Long Enough.

Loving someone through addiction is exhausting, heartbreaking, and isolating. You don't have to do this alone anymore.

Loving someone through addiction is one of the most courageous things a human being can do.

Open Communication

We keep you informed with regular updates on your loved one's progress — with their consent.

Al-Anon & Support Referrals

We connect you with Al-Anon, Nar-Anon, and family support groups in Sacramento.

How Taproot Supports Families

Visitation

Scheduled visitation so you can see where your loved one lives and meet the community supporting them.

Admissions Guidance

If you're calling on behalf of a loved one, we'll walk you through every step — with compassion.

We're Here for You Too

Family Education

Resources and guidance to help you understand addiction, recovery, and how to support without enabling.

Direct Access to Kimberly

You can speak directly with our founder, who has helped hundreds of families navigate this path.

When to Consider Sober Living

Signs Your Loved One May Need Sober Living

Have you noticed any of the following?

They've completed treatment but don't have a safe, sober place to live.

They keep returning to the same environment — and the same patterns.

They're isolating and losing connection with supportive people.

They're struggling to maintain employment or daily responsibilities.

You've noticed mood changes, secrecy, or old behaviors returning.

They've expressed a desire to change but don't know where to start.

You feel like you're running out of options.

If any of these resonate, a conversation with us might help.

Do:

✅ Wait until they are sober and you are calm.
✅ Express your love and concern clearly.
✅ Use "I" statements to share your feelings.
✅ Listen without interrupting or lecturing.
✅ Set firm boundaries for your own wellbeing.
✅ Offer specific paths for help, like Taproot.

How to Have the Conversation

Guidance for Families

Don't:

❌ Argument or yell while they are under the influence.
❌ Accept excuses or blame for their substance use.
❌ Make threats that you aren't prepared to keep.
❌ Preach, moralize, or try to guilt-trip them.
❌ Enable their behavior by shielding them from consequences.

A reminder for you

You Matter Too

Caring for someone in addiction takes a toll on your own health, relationships, and peace of mind. You deserve support too. We encourage every family member to explore Al-Anon, therapy, or a support group.

Al-Anon: al-anon.org

Nar-Anon: nar-anon.org

SAMHSA Family Helpline: 1-800-662-4357

Family FAQ

Common Questions

Can I call on behalf of my loved one?

Absolutely. We often take initial calls from family members. We’ll guide you through the next steps and help you understand how to support your loved one’s transition into sober living.

What if my loved one doesn't want help?

This is a common and difficult situation. While our residents must be willing to participate in recovery, we can offer resources and guidance on how to set healthy boundaries and have constructive conversations.

Can I visit my loved one at Taproot?

Yes, visitation is part of our commitment to family healing. We have scheduled days where family members can visit the community, meet with supportive peers, and see the environment first-hand.

Will you keep me updated on their progress?

With the resident's consent, we maintain open communication with families, providing regular updates on their milestones and general progress within our community program.

Is sober living the same as rehab?

No, sober living is the next step. While rehab focus on intensive clinical treatment, sober living provides a safe, drug-free environment to practice life skills and rebuild independence in a peer-supported community.

How much does it cost?

Costs vary based on the specific home and level of semi-private or private room availability. Please contact us directly for current transparent pricing and any applicable funding guidance.

Call Us. Ask Every Question You Have.

Kimberly Schaffer has walked with hundreds of families through this. She understands what you're going through — and she's here to help.

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